By John Nemick
Achieving your New Year's resolutions can make you feel better about yourself and improve your health. They might even lengthen your life. But it’s not always easy to keep your resolutions.
Why? It’s not because you don’t want to lose weight, volunteer more, or learn something new. You might just need a different approach.
First, decide what’s most important. Choose goals that you're serious about. Ask, "Am I really excited about this goal? Am I committed to achieving it?" If you hesitate, think again. If you're unwilling to let go of a habit, don't set yourself up for failure by making it a resolution. You have to be ready to make the change you want to see. Avoid setting too many goals. Focus on the ones (or just one!) most important to you.
Next, create a plan. Write your goals down. List what you expect to achieve and a time frame. The goal should be realistic. Set a pace that's right for you. Break down longer-term goals into smaller parts. Celebrate successes along the way. If you need professional support, you may have access to an employee assistance program, work-life services, or a wellness program.
The third step is “think positive.” Attitudes are habits of thinking. Believing you can achieve your goals is a big part of the work involved. Having a sense of humor is important too. Humor will help if you encounter some roadblocks on your path to success.
Next, gather support. Think about your circle of family, friends, and coworkers. Who can you trust and rely on? Pick someone who will encourage and motivate you. A good choice is someone who has achieved a goal similar to yours.
Step number five: Be nice to yourself! What you think or say influences your success. Positive self-talk means statements like, "I made progress today," "I am doing my best," or "I'm still okay, no matter what." Write these words down, post them in view, and practice them often.
Lastly, focus on your progress. Some resolutions fail because you value perfection over progress. Small steps add up to significant leaps over time, so keep going.
Next year, you'll be ready to set, and accomplish, a new set of goals.
About the Author: John Nemick is a native of Wisconsin and has worked in human services and counseling since 1975. He has a master’s degree in educational psychology and led a large regional employee assistance program before coming to LifeSynch® in 2007. He now handles employee assistance programs for Humana in Green Bay. John has taught at the post-secondary level, worked with businesses, and held workshops on a wide range of subjects.
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